Father role
By: Menna Zain
In a further village, there sit a young lady contacting a man two times older than her,
and after her mother was peeking she barely grabbed the girl by her loose dress as a part of punishment waiting to receive such an expression of regret, but totally the opposite happened, due to lack of sympathy the girl owns from her dad,
which expanded a space for stranger hence approaching a young girl with no care and love…
Therefore, a girl in a city rejects a man proposal according to the similarities between him and her father, whether were cognitive issues or emotional issues…
The image carved deeply in her mind, made her struggle with any other man, filled with doubts and fear…
Has anyone questioned what would be the consequences beyond dating an elder? Or a stranger and accepting gifts in return?
Because actually, no one gives without a receive…
And if you thought much more, you would easily recognize that the first girl would be involved in a crime as a victim,
or included in a corrupted marriage, as bonding herself to an elder who gave her insights of a good life,
faking such an offer and trapping her, then after billion arguments and fights and meanwhile,
she would be told “do you remember who you were before I make you a princess!”
And it would be a relationship full of humiliation…
Don’t assume the good few amount like 10% show love unlike the 90% who show grudge and toxic sentiments… all you have to do
And what you are really obligated with; is to be cautious enough not to fall for someone.
On another side, there is a positive perspective of a father’s role, making a child who lost his father lately to love the teacher for being similar somehow to his father, who had a good influence over him before he dies…
Don’t you dare think you are not linked to your kids, you are alive, in their behaviors, in their actions, their facial features, and their traits…
You are a part of them as they are a part of you, and both of you has an impact over the other.
As a father you are 100% responsible for your son’s behavior, you should give love and care to provide your family with a healthy environment, otherwise, you shouldn’t be married or having kids.
As a father you are in a total control…
Noah (peace be upon him) cried for his dead disbelief son who disobeyed God and was misled by other disbelieves in the tripe…
Ibrahim (peace be upon him) asked God to have his mercy over his father who was also a disbelief, bending for statues and worshiping them.
So both are quite examples in history how fathers and sons have a strong sentimental and mental link between each other…
We all make the mother’s role a center of concentration, and we totally forgot the other fraction which is totally important for the mother and the children likewise, represented in “father’s role”
If a father loves children and their mom and treat them fairly good, they will raise with a correct visionary… performing justice and less involved in crimes…
82% of studies proofs a strong bond between the father and the well-being of his children…
As a father gives supports, hence increasing the self-esteem of his kid,
A father is always known for his powerful so if he uses it in a positive way, he will supply his children and their mom with protection, a good father also teaches his kids how to deal with problems and duplicate their intellectual skills, as well as socializing… also respecting the other genders.
Parents in general are responsible of performing those terms, otherwise, it would be a toxic household system…
A father role includes working and having regular revenues but it doesn’t depend on money like forever…
You are not a bank account… and you are fully responsible of your child’s health also being a part of a new generation…
And as it’s considered a crime to mistreat your parents it’s also a crime to mistreat your child. Be aware of that.
Be a good role model, not a stigma to be ashamed of.
One last sentence as a closure,
Fear God in your treatment of your own kids.
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